<br /> <br /> <strong>Melting, surrendering unto love is moving in a other way than we usually do. Away from the world and our worldly affairs, our beloved and our nature bring us easily into the present</strong> <br /> <i>by Osho</i> <br /> <br /> <h2>Your sexuality can become an innocent sensuousness</h2> "Loving your woman, melt into her warmth. For a moment forget sexuality, for a moment forget all that goes on in your head, in your fantasy. For a moment just melt into the real woman. Don't carry any pornography in your head, don't make sexuality something cerebral. Let your sexuality be a deep sensuousness, sensitivity, a gut feeling. <br/> <br/> <strong>Melting becomes surrender</strong> <br/> Melt into the woman, as if you are again a child in the mother's womb. Unless you have known this with your beloved, you have not known your beloved. A child again in the mother's womb, absolutely together, all distances gone -- and in that moment you will know what surrender is. <br /> <br /> <strong>Handbooks do not give you an orgasmic experience</strong> <br /> The male ego creates trouble everywhere. Even being with your woman, you are trying to control the situation. Even in our language, ugly expressions have entered: we call it lovemaking. How can you make love? Nobody can make love. But it has come into language not without any reason. People are trying to make love; even in love they are doers. So the greatest opportunity of knowing surrender is missed. Now you have manuals: 'How To Make Love', 'How To Attain Total Orgasm'. And people are reading these manuals and following the instructions. I know of some foolish people who make love to their woman and by the bedside is the manual and they go on looking into it: how to make total orgasm. <br /> <br /> <strong>Meditation comes when you move with existence</strong> <br /> Some moments in life when you are not a doer, not a knower, when you simply are, you will have the taste (of surrender). It can come through beauty, it can come through poetry, it can come through music, it can come through so many doors. God has many doors to his temple." <br /> <i>[Osho](http://www.osho.com"Title"target='_blank') - excerpted from The Book of Wisdom #18</i> 2009-07-30T22:28:31Z 93 lieben 557 online 2009-12-22T23:13:07Z